My father just died in his sleep. He had passed by the time the paramedics arrived.

They still did their best, which I am very grateful for, but they even an entire trash bag full of used instruments that were stuffed under the bed for some reason

I’m glad that I found it sooner over later but it’s mildly infuriating that they just discarded their medical waste under his bed.

(NSFW some blood)

I’ve been taking care of him for over 5 years and it’s made things a lot harder for me, seeing all of that all over.

  • popemichael@lemmy.sdf.orgOP
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    1 year ago

    Yeah, I’m having a bad day after and I needed to take my mind off of things for a while.

    We all grieve in our own ways.

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      1 year ago

      They meant the asshole commenter was having a mental breakdown. I’m sorry they said that, it’s ridiculous.

      You’re allowed to grieve or distract yourself in any way you want. (I would discourage anything self destructive obviously)

      There’s absolutely nothing wrong with going online. I’m incredibly sorry for your loss, and I am sending many good thoughts your way. ♡