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9 months agoPart of what’s making this difficult for me is, as I mentioned in my OP, I was in a dead bedroom for many years in my marriage, so I don’t feel like I’m in a place where I can feel desire for someone and not have it reciprocated. It’s not psychologically healthy for me. But she is special and important to me, and if there’s a way I can salvage this relationship while meeting my own needs and respecting myself, I’d be open to it.
I’ve had really shitty luck with all the apps tbh. I have one friend I see very rarely that I met on Feeld, and this person from Tinder. But it’s encouraging to hear that OKC now has ENM options, so maybe I’ll give that a try.