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I haven’t noticed any acute or chronic issues from it, honestly. They do talk a little bit about it in the FAQs section, apparently the black dye has caused issues for folks in the past.
I haven’t noticed any acute or chronic issues from it, honestly. They do talk a little bit about it in the FAQs section, apparently the black dye has caused issues for folks in the past.
Holding out hope for ya ❤️
A Cherry Keeper! They’re a good mix of customizable + relatively inexpensive. Wanna upgrade one day to a Kink3D cage but they’re double the price, if not more.
Due to some travel and sickness, I didn’t cum for about 10-12 days this past fortnight. Of course when I was well again and pointed this out to my partner, she suggested I have to wait longer, and put me in chastity. Which was hot! I told her what I wanted most was a good edging/handjob session, which was she was happy to do.
Once she was ready, she let me out of my cage and lubed up her hand. She was very vocal in lightly teasing me, pointing out how desperate I was for it, etc. She edged me a good 5-6 times before finally letting me cum, after I asked very nicely for it. It was a LOT of cum. She scooped up some and put it in my mouth, then had me eat her out until she came twice.
Otherwise, I have some queer/fem clothes on the way I’m excited to play around with. Figured I should get a few things for pride!
My tongue and I will be there ASAP!
Glad to have helped and I appreciate the kind words!! 🥰
I made some significant progress in opening up to my partner and had some fun along the way.
First off, I put on my chastity cage and sent her a snapchat (captioned with the location of the key) from bed where the cage was visible. She took the key and told me next time I need to ask to be locked up for her, which I liked. She asked me if I wanted to touch her or if I wanted to cum. Of course, as a good sub, my answer was to touch her.
I ate her out and made her cum twice, then she asked me to pick a number 1-3. I chose 2, which meant 2 more days locked up before I could cum. Which is the longest I’ve ever been in chastity and was very hot! She even went to the gym with the key around her neck and said everyone was going to see the key…
I got her off a few more times over the next couple days. We had a good, long chat about our D/S dynamics and what each of us wanted, though I didn’t really disclose much in the way of crossdressing during this. We talked about things like collaring, names, punishment, etc. Very good talk.
Sunday came along and I didn’t know what the plan was but was obviously very excited. She asked me to shower beforehand, so I was released from my cage. After I asked her if I should re-lock myself to which she replied “do you think you should?”. Obviously the answer was yes. But from there, I took a risk. While she was getting ready, I put on my lacy bodysuit (the same one from my profile pic). She didn’t know I had this (or any lingerie), so my heart was beating out of my chest as I walked through the door.
Luckily, she loved it. She even helped me to one of the back straps that I couldn’t get myself 😅 after that, she put on her strap-on, put me on my knees, and made me suck it. It was really hot and I got it down the deepest I’d ever taken it thanks to her help. She kept telling me what a pretty mouth I have and how I was born to suck cock. Needless to say, I leaked a LOT of precum during this.
After that I got down to business as she showed off her new crotchless panties. I ate her ass for a bit before starting in on her pussy and making her cum twice, getting a moaned “good boy” each time. From there, we 69’d. I was a bit too focused on her pleasure during this but still enjoyed it very much. Then she asked how I wanted to cum, from fucking her or from a hand job. I asked her to make me eat my cum after, so she chose fucking.
We did a few minutes of doggy style before I came HARD in her. Suffice to say, there was a lot. I thanked her for letting me fuck her and she told me to clean her up, which I did. My cum doesn’t taste great, but it was still hot, and something I’m bad at doing on my own after I’ve came.
Basking in the afterglow, we talked a bit about what we did, and she asked a couple questions about the bodysuit. One of which was “was that in the men’s/unisex section?” to which I replied “I don’t think so but I don’t care”, which was a fine response. She brought up the idea of buying me lacy panties and making me wear them (would not require any convincing from me, hehe). I still haven’t told her everything, but she now also knows I want to wear makeup sometimes, so I’ve made a lot of progress!
I’m gonna have some goooood stuff for this next time so definitely don’t forget about it 👀 going to bi-weekly would be totally fine if it works best for you + others, though :)
Just saw we’re down, donated on Throne to get us back in the green!
Latest update I’ve got is that chastity stuff went well, so that’s a good start!
Appreciate the perspective, yeah! It’s not so much a “want” to hide it as it is a fear. And as progressive as we are, we both struggle with heteronormative bullshit sometimes y’know.
Yet again: I greatly appreciate you dedicating this much thought and time to this thread by a random person! The optimism of your message warms my heart.
The plan/schedule tip is good, I think you’re right about that. I’ll be working on that and how to word things over the next few days.
Hey appreciate the honesty from a vital perspective! I do get what you’re saying on committing to open communication. I’m thoroughly for the idea, it’s just that putting it into practice is tough.
Telling her slowly may not be better but it’s about all I can handle at the moment, sadly. I fully understand I have to deal with whatever consequences come from that.
Thank you again for the kind words, recommendation, and for taking the time to reply!!
I appreciate your perspective! I’ve got some things to think about.
“be gentle with yourself” is easier said than done 😅 but really, I appreciate the response! I’m taking it a bit slower and building up to telling her. It would be a lot easier if I was just posting regular nudes, but I really don’t want to throw “hey, I’m an exhibitionist/crossdresser/etc and I’ve been posting pics of myself online” all at her at once.
This is a LOT of thought and I greatly appreciate you taking the time to write it out and come back to edit it twice! I think your line “I wouldn’t feel valued as a partner if that were hidden from me” is the harsh reality at the heart of it. I’d hope my partner would understand the nuance, but I think that would be the central feeling and takeaway. Which is not great!
Writing it down is definitely something I’ve been working on in a way, yeah! I appreciate the tip. I did move things forward a little by bringing up chastity and getting a positive response. It’s a start!
Definitely appreciate the nuanced and very comparable input! I think your third point is really about where I’m going for the moment, at least. I told her about my interest in chastity and she was immediately into it, so that’s a good start!
Not the first time I’ve seen some good words from you on here, too. Thank you for existing!
Phenomenal!! Keep up the good work ❤️
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Nothing crazy to report on from me - Had a good time where my partner had me sit in her lap and masturbate exactly how she told me while she lightly teased me (verbally), and a nice PIV session. She’s mentioned a couple things like having me, while caged, put on a strap-on to fuck her (which I’m into). Also talked about making me suck her strap again 👀