Is Seafile any good? It’s similar to nextcloud, but apparently faster etc.

https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.seafile.seadroid2&showAllReviews=true

https://apps.apple.com/cn/app/seafile-pro/id639202512?l=en&platform=iphone

Mobile apps both have pretty bad ratings on the app stores.

What would you host for yourself, friends and family, basic dropbox functionality is all I need.

I have hosted Nextcloud in the past but it’s a huge program with way too many tools, apps and a complicated way to update, the end result is often a slow and not very comfortable way to use the aforementioned basic dropbox functionality.