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  • This is partly because the apps suck (because of capitalism/profit motive) and partly because we all suck.

    Many people of all genders won’t do better than “hey”. And then complain that they’re not having good experiences. Sometimes it’s garbage in, garbage out, my dudes.

    I also get a lot of weird dead ends. Their profile will be like “I love elden ring”. You’ll be like “elden ring is a masterpiece! Did you play the new expansion yet?” They’ll be like “no”. End of messages. My dude. That’s not how this works. In real life, fine, maybe you can give a short answer and see what they do, read some body language. But in an asynchronous text only communication? That’s not pulling your weight. And if you’re not actually interested, just unmatch. If you don’t have time , don’t reply at all. It’s async. Come back later.

    Maybe some of these people match with each other and are very happy with “what’s up?” “nm u?” “Im good” forever.










  • jjjalljs@ttrpg.networktoOff My Chest@lemmy.worldI miss text-based tutorials
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    This has come up a few times and I agree: I vastly prefer text in most cases.

    However! I learned that something like half of US adults cannot read at a 6th grade level.

    Everyone here, on a heavy text based forum, is probably able to read English. But for a lot of people who probably aren’t going to post here, reading can be stressful, frustrating, and embarrassing.

    So that sucks. We should probably be investing in education instead of whatever idiocy venture capital is setting on fire this week.






  • Per my metaphor, it’s a polygon. That is, Christianity. But the “don’t feed the poor” subset are like a triangle versus the “we should feed the poor” are an octogon. Both polygons. Very different.

    I don’t know what “triangle” maps back to in the context of Christianity. “Heterodox” or “heretical” aren’t precise enough.


  • I see the point you are trying to make and it has some merit. However, I think there is also merit in distinguishing between like people who say they are Christian but don’t follow anything from the Bible and people who say they are Christian and do.

    Like, you can point to most shapes and say “that’s a polygon” but sometimes it’s more helpful to say “that’s a triangle”, “that’s a square”, and "that’s juat a line, not a polygon actually "