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  • Have you told her how that phrasing affects you? She can’t change what she says if she doesn’t know it bothers you.

    Also, have you talked to her about why she wants things to finish up? Being done fucking could be for several different reasons, and some of those could be addressed so she doesn’t want it to stop.

    For my wife it’s because she gets sore if we go a while, and wants to finish before things start hurting, so I know it’s time to grab the vibe to push her over the edge (something like 80% of women struggle to orgasm from penetration alone).







  • You can actually get anal plugs that have ball bearings in them that bounce around as you move, so you get vibration without electric parts.

    But ultimately, it’s just something you’ve gotta try a few different things until you find something that works for your body. There’s a few hundred silicone prostate massagers out there.

    The way I searched was using AliExpress. They’re the exact same thing as the $10-20 ones on Amazon for $2-5, if you can wait a few weeks.

    I’d recommend getting a set to start with until you find what insertable length works best for you. Unfortunately, whomever designs the toys seem to think that longer massagers need to be thicker too, so you might need to work up to one.