It’s painfully obvious that the Lemmy population is primarily men.
Frustrating.
edit: to save my sanity, I choose believe that the majority of comments here are trolling. Y’all cannot genuinely be this dense.
I wanted to talk with other women about this to get more clarity and it turns into…this. Damn.
It works. The problem is that this doesn’t work with women/humans that play games.
And at that point you should ask yourself is that a person you want in your life.
If I ask someone and get rejected in a rude way I’m hurt, of course, but at the same time I’m happy because I dodged a cunt.
And if you ask and get a positive response the whole thing starts on a great note.
So depending on your perspective it is a win-win situation.